I lived in New Jersey, in the woods in New Jersey.  I have two brothers, one on each side; I’m in the middle.  And there was one house across the street that also had two boys.  So I grew up as a tomboy in the woods and we did all the stuff you said.  We went fishing and we played, we tried to play basketball and baseball.  What else do little boys do?  I tried to pee one time like a boy and peed on my pants and that didn’t work very well.  That was always a problem hanging out with those guys.  And that’s about it.  A development came in, like you said, probably around the time I was 15 and I finally got some girlfriends which actually I thought at the time, no offense, were pretty boring, because they just wanted to play with dolls or whatever.